You can usually find this directory wherever you installed Steam:
Manually move these 3 new files to your SR2 install directory (where sr2_pc.exe resides) and replace the existing ones. This will create a new patch.vpp_pc, preload.tbl, and preload_anim.tbl file for you in the MY_CUSTOM_PATCH folder. When you are satisified that all your desired mods have been selected, press P to build your new patch file. It will include almost EVERYTHING you've come to expect in the old prebuilt versions.
* NOTE: If you simply want the Standard KBAM build of Gentlemen of the Row v1.9, just select P at the menu to build the patch. Some of the choices have submenus with many additional options like the Gang Types and Character Customization. Selecting the mod again will toggle the selection off. Doing so will add an 'I' to the mod to let you know you've selected it for install. Select your mods to install from the list by typing in the number and pressing Enter. RAW Paste Data Gentlemen of the Row v1.9 by IdolNinja - Install Instructions